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Are you looking for preschool conflict resolution activities that you can implement today? Do you find your preschoolers having trouble resolving conflict, arguing all the time, and constantly coming up to you upset?  Our young learners are learning so many life lessons in their preschool rooms, and conflict resolution can be a difficult skill to learn. It doesn’t have to be that hard! Like, with all skills, conflict resolution just needs to be introduced and then practiced. 

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5 effective activities that preschool teachers can implement to teach conflict resolution skills to their young learners.

Before I jump right into the preschool conflict resolution activities, I wanted to make sure you have the perfect FREEBIE for this! The CONFLICT RESOLUTION BOOKLET will give your young learners strategies to solve common problems. The print and use freebie can be downloaded by clicking on the image below.

Why Teach Conflict Resolution in Preschool?

According to U-Gro, conflict resolution is critical to teach because it allows young children to learn how to listen and cooperate with others. It also teaches them how to communicate their thoughts and feelings, become more aware of their needs, and think creatively to solve problems. 

It can seem overwhelming at times because, for the most part, our preschoolers are only just learning to communicate their needs and wants in a productive manner and it is only through practice and repetition that they will begin to manage these difficult situations independently. To make your life a little easier here are some conflict resolution activities for you to implement. 

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Are your preschoolers constantly asking for help to solve conflicts? These 5 effective conflict resolution activities will give your students the skills they need to solve minor conflicts.

5 Preschool Conflict Resolution Activities:

1. Introduce Techniques to Solve Minor Conflicts

When your young learners constantly come up to you wanting help in solving their conflicts, it provides you with the opportunity to teach them the skills you have learned as an adult. Make sure all your students are on the same page. Discuss helpful and unhelpful ways to solve a conflict. 

Preschool conflict resolution activities sorting activity.
When introducing preschool conflicts resolution to your young learners, discuss helpful and unhelpful ways to solve a conflict. That will get your preschoolers thinking and talking about conflict resolution.

Create a list together as a class on techniques we can use to solve conflicts. Here are my top 6. They are easy for our young learners to remember and implement on their own once practiced. 

  1. Play rock, paper, scissors
  2. Say, “Stop!” Then, explain what
  3. Choose a calm down technique
  4. Say, “Sorry”
  5. Speak to a grown-up
  6. Choose another activity
A classroom poster display showing ways to solve common preschool conflicts.
Display and make the conflict resolution techniques visible in the classroom. This will remind your preschoolers about the different techniques you have introduced.

Once you have introduced each strategy, have them displayed in your room so your students can refer to it when needed. Practice these skills using the ideas below.

2. Games to Teach Conflict Resolution

The first thing you can do is to use games to teach conflict resolution in preschool. All children love games and will be more likely to remember something if we play an engaging game with the lesson. Also, playing games to reinforce concepts takes away the monotony of repetition.

Common Social scenarios preschool children would encounter.
Present common social scenario problems they may encounter and discuss ways to solve those common conflicts using the techniques introduced.

Using common social scenarios you could play What Could They Do? Once you have introduced your students to the ways to solve a conflict, place a grid in the middle of your group time area. Read the scenario & the children move to the strategy they think would work best. You could even take it a step further and ask them why they think that would work best. 

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These conflict resolution scenarios will be a great addition to your Unit on Conflict Resolution and will get your students brainstorming ways to deal with different types of conflict they may encounter in the classroom.

Bingo is also another great way to reinforce the different conflict resolution strategies in a fun and engaging way. Place all the different strategies on a bingo card, read a scenario and the children mark off a strategy they would use to solve the conflict.

Create puppets for your students to role-play different conflicts. Puppets will allow the children to explore these concepts in a different way. They may be more comfortable sharing their thoughts and ideas using the puppets. 

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Use these conflict resolution games to get your preschool, pre-k or kindergarten students thinking about what are some positive ways to deal with conflict and talk about times they have used some of these conflict resolution techniques.

3.Read Books about Conflict Resolution

Another excellent tool for teaching conflict resolution in preschool is the use of books. Our young learners are captivated by books, and I use this to my advantage! Picture books will encourage discussions around looking at different points of view, identifying the problem, and discussing possible solutions to solve the problem.

Some of my favorites are: 

  • Let’s Be Enemies – This book about conflict resolution is written by Janice May Udry. You students will love listening to the story of two friends who become enemies due to unresolved conflict. 
  • Our Class is a Family – Such a gorgeous book for building classroom community. Written by Shannon Olsen,  children learn that their classroom is a place where it’s safe to be themselves, it’s okay to make mistakes, and it’s important to be a friend to others. 
  • Talk and Work It Out – This book focuses on how to peacefully solve problems using our words. Written by Cheri J. Meiners, It is a great book for teaching conflict resolution.
  •  Enemy Pie – Written by Derek Munson, this book helps children understand more about resolving conflicts and making friends. 

4. Role Play

I love to use role-playing in the classroom, and The Early Start Group has some great information about the effectiveness of role-playing in an early childhood setting. 

Giving students examples of different common conflicts is a crucial aspect of teaching conflict resolution in preschool. I introduce the scenario, then together we decide the best course of action. We even role-play the scenarios so students can see what this resolution technique would look like in action!

Young children love acting and role-playing which provides them with a safe place to explore these conflict resolution techniques. Students may feel more comfortable seeking advice and voicing their concerns when they are role-playing. 

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Use this print and go conflict resolution clip cards to get your preschool, pre-k or kindergarten students thinking about what are some positive ways to deal with conflict. These conflict resolution clip cards for preschoolers are a perfect companion to your Unit on Conflict Resolution.

5. Model Conflict Resolution Techniques

Finally, when teaching conflict resolution to preschoolers modeling and making it clear how you use conflict resolution techniques in your own life. This will demonstrate to your students how you deal with difficult situations. 

Another way to model conflict resolution is to bring it to group time. For example, if the students are having conflicts around turn-taking with the new trucks, I gather the children, and we try to solve the problem together.  Discuss the issue and elicit ways we can resolve this conflict. This allows the whole class to see different ideas and ways of thinking. 

Preschool conflict resolution wheel used to remind preschoolers about conflict resolution techniques
Bring common conflicts to group time. Get your young learners thinking and sharing ideas on ways to solve a reoccuring problem that is happening in the classroom.

One last thing, don’t forget to involve families in what you are doing. Parents will love to hear what is working in the classroom and will appreciate knowing what strategies their children are learning. This allows families to learn the techniques and can implement them at home. 

Conflict resolution activities letter to families
Don’t forget to involve families! Send a letter home explaining what preschool conflict resolution techniques you are working on.

I hope these 5 preschool conflict resolution activities have inspired you to empower your young learners to take steps to resolve conflicts independently! 

Check out these blogs posts for more friendship activities for your young learners:

  1. 5 Ways to Easily Fit Activities About Friendship into Your Day
  2. 3 Main Areas to Focus on When Teaching Friendship Skills to Preschoolers
  3. 7 Fun and Engaging Activities about Friendship for Preschool Classrooms

Don’t forget to download my FREEBIE to add to your conflict resolution resources! Click on the image below to grab your FREEBIE! 

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This conflict resolution booklet is a great freebie to add to your conflict resolution lesson.


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